[Opinion] I can summon spiders

[agapezara]

Hey, apologies if this is in the wrong category and for context I am not really religious, I am sorta spiritual/open to it like I believe tarot cards but I’ve never really looked into anything else.

basically august 2024 I said to my friend as a joke I hope a spider is in your bed when you’re asleep, it happened at 4am. Then in august 2025 I never said anything but I was thinking about it if it happened to my bf (I never said anything) then he said he got a spider in his bed so I asked him what time then he said 4am so I told him what happened to my friend so it sorta became a running joke. Then two days ago my friend annoyed me since I seen a spider so I said to him I hope a spider is in your bed at night and I was sorta wishing, he said that he felt something crawling on his neck but he wasn’t sure what since it was too dark to see, I asked what time it happened and it happened at 4am. Then last night I wasn’t sure if I was thinking of it but my bf said he had 3 spiders in his bed at 4am. I’m just wondering if this actually means anything? It feels like I can sorta summon them lol I’m not entirely sure though and I was wondering if it means anything spiritual? My bf jokingly says I’m magic and I’ve always felt a bit spiritual compared to others like me and my best friend have

 

[HellenaHex]

Hey sorry for the late reply, I honestly meant to post this ages ago but got distracted I guess. I believe you should try summoning one to you when you don’t see them. Try this a couple times off and on for a week. Also ask your friend if they have spiders harass them in general fairly often. Your friend sounds like they have a spider problem like my cousin… spiders hate her.

I work with spiders and a large spider spirit but before that I was a baby and spiders would constantly crawl into my crib and crawl on me, years later I'm handling spiders all the time and safe around them. After that in New York I had a black shiny spider crawl onto my drawing I was working on so I picked it up and brought it to my mother to show her. That’s when she screamed and slapped it out of my hand. It was a black widow. From that point on, the only spiders that liked me were jumping spiders and crab spiders. I was constantly at war with black widows, brown recluse, wolf spiders, joro spiders and aggressive orb weaver hybrids I’ve only seen in GA.

It was pretty bad. I was constantly having them jump on me in the shower, they would climb on me when I was reading in bed, or they chose to chase me down. Needless to say I was starting to develop a phobia at that point. But one day on my spiritual journey this blue gigantic sparkling spider with blue and purple twinkling stars on her came to me. When she appeared she took up the entire ceiling and she told me her name. She explained to me that she had always been with me in this lifetime and knew me from past lives and that I had hurt her and her people.

She was referring to my war on the spiders and my growing fear. She said that all I had to do was stop. Stop reacting out of fear and stop using violence. That they were drawn to me because I am marked by her. So I promised that I would never deliberately kill another spider for the rest of my life unless there was some freak situation where one was for whatever reason trying to hurt my loved one and could be fatal, but outside of that I wouldn’t hurt them and I would be respectful to them. Since this promise and working with her actively I don’t get attached. I do have them around me all the time but if they are someplace I don’t want them I carefully move them outside, unless it’s raining in which case I put them in my workshop. The other unusual thing that happens now is if I pick up dead spiders they start moving again. I thought it was a coincidence the first few times, like they had just molted or something, but if the spider is intact and freshly dead I can reanimate it. Not sure why or to what purpose but I place them outside when I have that happen and send them on their way since even I find that creepy.

I have a precious gift from a pumpkin orb weaver spider in my garden. A thistle seed puff had blown into its web and it was disappointed that it wasn’t food so I walked over to help it out. However, it didn't need my help and wrapped it up in silk. Then it turned to me and waited so I put my hand out and it dropped the silk wrapped seed into my palm. I keep it on my altar now. So the point I’m making is you should experiment using the scientific method to see if you can summon spiders or if you can just hex someone with spiders. If so it is likely you have a spider spirit that favors you. Now I must point out that one shouldn’t sick spiders on our friends or people who haven’t truly wronged us, simply because it’s not kind to them or the spider that might get hurt in the process.
By the way, since you posted this have you had any new interactions or experiences with spiders?